Hi guys,

Thanks for all the advice.

I definitely didn't want to tell anyone about it, but my boss is pretty easy going. So today in conversation he asked me about our plans to have children and I used to opportunity to tell him. As soon as I said it, he told me that he didn't want me to go (he knew about my mc). He said he didn't want me to take any chances. He was actually pretty good with it all.

So problem solved, even if I wanted to go he wouldn't allow it! On the same note I don't want any special treatment iykwim and I did mention that to him.