Hi Jess
I'm with Lou...it so wonderful that you are sensitive to your friends journey. Like Lou we have been trying for over eight years...I have at times had incredibly insensitive preg announcements which have truely broken my heart...for me...the most considerate was a girl at work who simply chose a quiet moment..didn't make a big deal just said..."i Have some news...I really don't know how to tell you...but it's really important to me that I tell you myself...etc" She acknowledged my journey and how unfair it is...which was really nice...I think it depends on the day and where the person is at...it's a really difficult one...best of luck!