Uncertain

[MagicSeahorse]

Hi I'm new to all of this.
Four months ago I had an incomplete miscarriage. I got to ten weeks and started getting brown discharge. my doctor sent me for a scan, which showed it had died at six and a half weeks.
Now after a D &C, I am seven weeks pregnant. Afew days ago I started getting a little bit of brown discarge again. I went to the doctor, My usual doc is away, and after explaining the situation to the stand in, she told me "If it happens again, just go to bed for 24 hours, and only get up to go to the loo." This doesn't sound like very sound advice to me. Also I'm a business owner and in the middle of moving house, how am I supposed to "just stay in bed"?
I went for a scan a week ago and it showed a nice beating heart . I was so over joyed, as I thought I had already lost it again.
Now this has started. Does anyone have any advice?

[JordieC]

well to give you some piece of mind that happened to me - first preg ended in m/c but when i bled in second preg it didn't matter - ended up with my gorgeous girl! and i bled for nearly 3 weeks! I would def go to emergency - that's what i did because waiting is the worst. i guess it depends where you live and what the hospitals are like. hope it all works out for you

[bettyboop]

how are you doing , hope all is ok

[MagicSeahorse]

Hi Bettyboop
Thanks for the concern. Not so good.
Started bleeding for real last night. My regular Doc gets back tomorrow, so I'll see him then. I know I've lost it so theres no hurry.
I'm really tired of this. This it the third time.
Lisa

[bettyboop]

i am sorry to hear that , i to have just lost my little angel , sending you a big hug.

[MagicSeahorse]

Well Betty, I'm kind of embarassed,
Looks like I jumped the gun on my grieving. :doctor: sent me for scans yesterday, and everything is fine. They could not find any reason for my bleeding, Jellybean is OK, is good, size is good, I have a cyst, in one ovary, but nothing else.

I'm sorry to put you all through that pain again, I know it's hard for us that have been through m/c's to hear about another, and it brings back past pain, and sharpens current pain.
So I say again , I'm sorry for what I've put you thru, and for what you are going thru.

My doc says that I'm not histerical, or a hypochondriac, he said that considering my past, I did the right thing, and should do so again if it should happen again. I'll just wait abit untill I've seen that I have a true reason to grieve before I go bawling on everyones shoulders again.

Best wishes to you all
Especially those of you suffering loss right now.
Lisa

[hj1981]

Lisa - thats great new that all is okay!