I am 22 and am pregnant to the man of my dreams.
To me that was the greatest news of my life.
My brothers congratulated me and my partner, and wished us all the best.
One of my sisters congratulated me and has been so supportive.
As for the other two, they need to pull their heads out of their bums and grow up.
Not only did they flip out when i told them I was pregnant, they ignored me and gave me no congratulations or best wishes.
The completely stopped talking to me, and started rumours through my family and to my parents.
They started gossip, and said I was undeserving of having children, and that they hate my partner, whom ive been with for a year and they used to love him.
They sent me hurtful messages, telling me they feel sorry for the baby when its born.
They then riduculed me and told me I was lazy for resigning from my job (as I was in bad pain from back aches so I had to resign)
When I confronted them about why they were being childish and acting like idiots, they turned around and told me I was the immature one and they told me to f#ck off (in those words)
This is very sad, considering that these 2 sisters are aged 27 and 48!!!
It saddens me that they can act like this, and not enjoy the experience with me,...instead they lower my self esteem to a point where I feel bad for having children.
on top of this, my brother in law (my 27 year old sisters husband) wont talk to me or look me in the eye, as he is jelous that I am having kids before he has.
But my sister (his wife) doesnt want kids, and apparently thats my fault, apparently Im expected to wait around for them to start their family first.
All i can say to them is that they are being very unsupportive, they need to step up and be the aunties their meant to be.
I really dont care anymore, I have my partners family who have been so supportive, so helpful, so much nicer to me than my own family, and this saddens me.
My mum was a bit suprised when i told her i was pregnant, but her and my dad have been great since.
Yet my 48 year old sister has continually sent me rude abusive messages, telling me that my parents are 'so disapointed in me'.
Im not sure what there problems are, but I just hope they get over it soon, because i really want them there to be a part of my babies' life
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