thread: very upset...but is there any hope?

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  1. #1
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    Jun 2009
    vic
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    Thanks, somehow i'm thinking there will be no miracles this time- started spotting again. Gosh it's so frustrating.
    Dh is trying to cheer me up and wants me to be hapy, but how can I at a time like this? I feel like i'm letting him down also. I feel like such a failure...

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2009
    Sydney, NSW
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    Em, I don't think you're a failure. You're an amazing woman!

  3. #3
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    Jul 2009
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    Em I can really understand your feelings because the not knowing is the killer. Did the Dr offer a blood test to check if your levels are going up or down? When I had spotting, once the pregnancy was confirmed by an US, my Dr didn't bother with bloods and just sent me to check that the baby was growing with an US. But the other time they did BT's every 2 days to check that my levels were rising. The other thing I did........which might be ridiculous but it did help my sanity was that I took HPT's to see what the lines were doing........

    I am so thinking of you and sending you virtual hugs.

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    Jan 2009
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    more squishy cyber your way em...
    Don't feel like ur letting ur DH down, he just wants you to feel better, but you just keep doing what feels right for you, ok?

  5. #5
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    Dec 2006
    Gippsland Vic
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    HUGE HUGS, please don't feel like you are a failure, there is something not quite right and its not because of you..it's so hard and your DH hates seeing you feel this way and wants to make you happy...getting some answers is what you need, and the only way you can go forward...the waitng is the hardest part.

  6. #6
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    Oct 2007
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    Still thinking of you hun xxoo

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    Feb 2007
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  8. #8
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    Aug 2009
    Perth, WA
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    sorry em. here any time you need x