thread: Weight gain... or not?

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  1. #1
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    Feb 2009
    Brisbane
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    Hi Lily J
    Don't worry at all. I'm not at 12 weeks yet (only in my 8th week) but I have actually lost 4 kgs. My dr said not to worry at all, and that as awful as it sounds, babies are the perfect parasite - they take what they need to grow - even if it's at your expense! That's how come even in developing countries babies are still born at an average weight of 7 pounds or so.
    Just keep an eye on it and check in regularly with your ob. They'll tell you what you need to do.
    x

  2. #2
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    Oct 2008
    SA
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    Hi Lily
    Try not to worry. From 10 to 18 weeks I had no change in weight. I'm sure I lost a bit in first trimester too even though I was well for most of it - i think its just your body gearing up another level to grow bub. Even now at 25 weeks I would be surprised if I've put on any more than 1-2 kgs tops - all my clothes fit me everywhere but my growing belly. I'm not into weighing myself because its not really my thing (never owned scales in my life) and I don't think its a helpful indicator of how bub is growing - your fundal height is best for that (i.e.when the midwife measures your uterus).

    I've had lots of people comment to me that I look thinner than i did pre-pregnancy - i want to slap them all around the head, but have just learnt to ignore them. I think its cos you start to grow out front everything looks a little different.

    Enjoy your pregnancy...take care
    x

  3. #3
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    Nov 2004
    Melbourne VIC
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    Another one here that had no weight gain in the first tri! I was the same weight at my 16wk check up as I was at my 10wk one. I have now gone on to lose 3kg to this point but everything is fine. As everyone else has said, try not to worry as it seems to very common!

  4. #4
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    May 2008
    Sydney, Australia
    333

    8.5 weeks, and no weight gain as yet. I think for me I have probably lost muscle because I normally run a lot, but have had to top due to very low energy levels. I thought I would be packing it on with no running, but I am eating really healthy food, and doing other exercise, so I guess the weight gain is to come!

  5. #5
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    May 2007
    Brisbane
    171

    Thanks everyone - I really appreciate the feedback - it certainly has put my mind at ease. I think I was just expecting to be huge straight away like I was with my first pregnancy... But feel different all round this time (the lack of fluid retention this time around makes such a huge difference to everything - emotionally and physically - it even affects the way I sleep!!! When I was pregnant with our DD everything was so swollen it literally hurt to lay down! )
    Am almost 14 weeks and think I have put on 500gms (sometimes it's less on the scales - but I think it depends on when I weigh myself).
    Anyway, not going to stress about it - you guys have all provided such wonderful insight - thanks so much again.
    Lily

  6. #6
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    Jun 2007
    Western Australia
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    I've not put any on either (though my clothing says otherwise)
    Don't worry bout it

  7. #7
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    Feb 2009
    Canberra, ACT
    96

    I only gained 6kgs my entire pregnancy last time with DS and he was very healthy and a great size Enjoy the no weight gain!!