Would you go back?

[*LittleMissSummer*]

I am seriously over this bleeding! It started at 5w3d roughly as just brown spotting i freaked out went to the hospital at 5w6d when it started to get heavy all was good told it would stop in a few days. The blood then turned bright red so at 6w2d i was back at the ED. This time i was told i had an UTI and blood pooled in my something cavity and reassured again all was ok.

I am now 7w3d and i am now passing clots filling a pad everyday sometimes when i pee the water has blood in it, its like a heavy AF but i am having zero cramping... only a twinge here and there but nothing thats got me toppled over in pain which i am expecting any day now.

My question is would you go back again for another opinion or ride it out?

[Traveller]

personally I would go back for a 3rd opinion.

[diannescruffy]

I'd go back too, hopefully everything is still ok.

Regards,
Dianne

[Tinks]

Yes, go back.

[mad4e]

No harm in going back, and better to put you mind at ease, even though waiting around in the ED is a pain in the behind

[*LittleMissSummer*]

DP doesnt want to go to the ED because it will be another 8 hours wasted.. i am so upset i don't know what to do. Hes saying be positive listen to the doctor but what if the doctor is wrong?? I am supposed to start work at 2 so if im calling in sick i need to give reasonable amount of time. I just dont want to get to work and be crippled with pain or have a big bleed. Argh i hate this!!

[nothing2lose]

Why don't you ring the hospital and see what they say???

FWIW - Unless your DP is the one carrying the baby, I wouldnt listen to him.

[~clover~]

I'd take the day off & go in. Leave DP at home if you need too, with DD.

[Doing my best]

Call in sick regardless of whether you are going to the hospital.

And if DP thinks it a waste of time, go on your own if you want to get it checked.

[*LittleMissSummer*]

Thanks ladies. Hes seen how upset i am and hes telling me we should go. He said he doesnt want me to miscarry and i just said that we have to go to rule out that i am. poor DD is so upset because im crying.

Now to grow some balls and call work.

[nothing2lose]

If you go to the hospital, make sure you get a medical certificate. There is nothing work can say or do if you have a certificate...

[DANNIIM]

Have you had a scan yet? Either way i would be asking for one on the spot. Hope your bubba is still safe.

[*LittleMissSummer*]

N2L - Good point i will be sure to get one. But i have always said to work that my family comes first then work and if they sack me then i have a good case on them but they are reasonably ok, my line manager is awesome i can tell him anything and he understands.

danni- I have had 2 so far. One the first time where they found i have a septate uterus and the second to be sure that bub is still ok. I just know how quickly it can turn around which is why i am so worried especially with the bleeding and passing clots and things.

[blessedatlast]

If there are any radiology places open maybe you can go to a medical centre and get a referral from a GP for an U/S so you don't have to spend all day in hospital waiting.. Otherwise go to the hospital..

[RhiChiChi]

How'd you go? Is bubs ok?

[*LittleMissSummer*]

I went to my doctors then got referred to the hospital.

the doctor i saw at the hospital was very helpful. i found out that i have blood in my endometerial cavity so one side of my uterus is where the baby is and the other has blood. i have an ultrasound on tuesday to see if its getting better and the baby is ok.

[RhiChiChi]

Oh, I hope all is ok for you. Rest as much as you can hun

[Footsteps]

rest til your appointment. huge hugs huni....its soooo scary xxxx