I posted another thread about seeing the maternal fetal medicine ob. In a nutshell, we've decided to have another ultrasound this week to see if the fluid in bub's neck has decreased/stayed the same/increased (we're hoping for the first, at a push the second but definitely do not want to see the third). We have a 1in 57 chance of Down syndrome, but there's a chance it could be turners syndrome. At the moment, we're not going to have an amnio but will just wait it out and test at birth. So it's just a huge waiting game at the moment.

Eta i forgot to post and sy thanks about your advice on the amnio. I had no idea what it entailed so it did help!