I know how stressful this can be, I also had bright red bleeds with each of my two pregnancies. Twice in each one, between around 5 and 8 weeks. My DD is now 2.5 and I'm 36 weeks with #2. So don't lose hope, though I know it's easier said than done. Best wishes xx

Edit - just saw your new post, huge hugs honey and hoping that somehow it still works out ok for you xx