I understand why you do not want your mother/family to see you and the baby Ryn so soon after the birth, but perhaps also step back a moment and look at it from their point of view. They obviously love you (altho it may sometimes seem like they don't) and obviously cant wait to see the baby either - personally and I am sorry if I offend anyone I think it is quite mean to not let them visit regardless of the issue you have.

Other visitors like neighbours, friends etc sure dont let them come and visit but its your mother, your childs grandmother....all I am saying is that even tho it stresses you out and you obviously dont have the best relationship, perhaps just perhaps this may be a way to reach out to her and your own relationship with her may improve after she sees your gorgeous child and what a wonderful job you did bringing them into the world.

Good luck.