hey just wanted to know, as am planning for baby number 2 am really scared, ma baby is now four years old, but some people told me that having a big age diffrence in between siblings is really hurtful and painful during pregnancy as urs was 6 years difference did you experience anything like that...if its personal then i understand you dont have to reply back..

thank you for your time and in help..

No, it was not really hurtful or painful. I suffered more morning sickness and for longer but I think that could happen with any pregnancy.
Are people refering to you being older for your next pregnancy and perhaps not as fit and healthy as you might have been first time round??
Aparently Dr`s say that after 5 years your body reverts back to having never been pregnant before, so if you have 5+years between pregnancys then its almost as if its a first pregnancy for the body to deal with.