I can so empathise!! I feel like an elephant by the endof the day, my feet and ankles and hands (and even now my face!!) all swell up terribly.
I have no shoes that fit me, I am usually a size 8 and am now wearing my mums size 10 wide fitting slip ons with straps cut off.
my doc has been keeping a very close eye on my bp, goes up and down but so far no probs.
my swelling will go down overnight, depending on some degree as to what I have been doing that day (ie walking around shopping centre all day= still swollen in the morning!)
strangely my feet didnt start to swell up until I left work at 34 wks, and I was a pharmacy assistant, on my feet for 7 and a half hours a day.
all the suggestions are great that these guys have given, I really feel for you and am counting down to the end of this pregnancy....
xxx