Hi guys,

Was going to have a baby shower in the next month but dh brought up a great point.
I already have everything I need. I was thinking about having people come around and help me prepare some food for the freezer but honestly don't feel I will be up for so much effort. lol. I am not your normal kind of girl and feel funny about every making such a fuss about me. ; )

I was thinking at about 2-3 weeks after the birth to have a bbq and invite everyone over. What do you guys think? Will I not be up for it? I love my bbq's and I feel it would be great to have a date so people will kindly not just drop in randomly after bun is born.

Anyone do this? Btw we are not fussed about presents, just thought it would be great for everyone to see bun. ; ) Oh and to add the straying from the "norm" it will be inclusive. So everyone, partners and kids included. : )