I just had my baby shower last weekend...friends of mine organised it and I had my hubby and another guy there (although they were in another room watching a DVD most of the time...hehe). We had the shower at my house and the girls organised some great snacks (brought by most guests) and a few games (the best one is to get the guests to guess how big your belly is using a piece of string - then each person takes turns testing it around your belly - it is a lot of laughs).

I have also been to a 'welcoming party' which is a nice idea for those who don't like the whole 'baby shower' thing. Any excuse to get together with friends is always fun!

Just remember, there are no rules...you don't HAVE to do anything and you can make it what you want. Good luck!