Ignore. Ignore ignore ignore. Everyone.

You don't have any medical conditions that could cause bub to be bigger than you can birth, which means your body is building the right size baby for you Myy midwife measures me, but always says that there are so many things that can influence fundal height thats its not even worth worrying about. Your body knows what its doing.

I understand your fears of c/s ... Something I found really helpful to do was to read up on some empowering c/s stories. I don't want a c/s. Not at all. But if I hold on to that fear in labour its possible that the fear of having a c/s will stress me so much that I might end up having to have one IYKWIM. I think being prepared has helped a lot. Writing my birth plan including what I want to happen if I have to have a c/s. It doesn't alleviate all fears, but I tried to address the ones that were scary me the most. Dunno if this helps but I hope so. I really do know what you are going through!