Well I am back from shopping and after trying on everything that came in an E at k-mart (urmmmm no might as well wear two sandwich bags tied up with string) Bra's n things and David Jones I finally settled on the Berlei "Sweet nothing" Finally a bra that hold up, seperated and supports!
I also found the Y shaped inner supports seem no good to us larger mamma's I felt like my breast was being squeezed out like toothpaste when I let the cup down. Much more freedom in the one sided support. I'm loving the Berlei at the moment I am hoping is holds it's shape after being washed mulitple times.
Oh I ended up being a 14 E or in some a 12F so a huge Jump from the 10 E I was trying to stuff the girls into.
Thanks again everyone for your help!
Melissa