DD was born at 8:08pm and i got to see her about 10:30pm. I did see her straight after the birth tho. Just for a few minutes. It took a while for me to regain feeling and it took ages for them to glue me all back up. All the grandparents were there when i came back from recovery, but none of them held her. Matt told them no one is to hold her until i get to hold her and give her, her first feed.