I just want to point out a few facts that could be helpful to becky

1)
And after carrying a baby for nine months in your stomach - it's unusual for a woman not to bond with it after birth.
As far as I am aware it is not unusual at all for a mother to not bond immediately with her child no matter what the circumstances of the birth were, and it is comments like these that can cause women to feel like they are abnormal or strange or have done something wrong when they do not bond with their babies.

2)
The bonding risk is a complete lie. People don't bond with their baby for their own emotional reasons - wether they have a c/s or natural birth.
I did not bond with Jackson for a long time and did develop PND, and some of the reasons for my feelings of inadequacy were due to having a caesarean and like Dee said feeling like I had not really given birth to my child, more like the Dr. had taken him from me. These kinds of feelings are more common in caesarean cases, therefore not a lie at all. And also the non-bonding isn't always due to the mother's own emotional reasons, it can be caused by PND which is often caused by some type of chemical and hormonal imbalance present in a great deal of mothers after the birth - in which the mother actually has no say in.

It is wonderful that there are so many c/s success stories out there, I wish that mine was one of them, but it wasn't and I will never be able to change that, and anyone that ever asks me about it will always receive the honest to god truth, otherwise, what's the point in asking? I hope Becky if you do have a c/s that yours will be one of the successes - there is no reason why it wouldn't be.