For men, the Haynes Baby Manual is fantastic. I've bought it for DH for Christmas - it's for babies as well as pregnancy and conception, and leaves the medical stuff to the other books, just tells the man to look after his wife and treat her well! Sounds good to me (hence me buying it). Of course, it does lament the fact that you'll be buying the Haynes Car Manuals for essential work, not fun, from now on, but otherwise doesn't do much of the product-selling you may expect.