i have the car today, but i have to pick him up from altona in an hour. maybe get him to drop me off or something... we had an arguement this morning when i dropped him off at work, and i told him to be nice or i woudlnt pick him up this arvo... so i have to get him. will then have to try and convince him to stop at hosp, just sent him a msg to say we will be stopping off on way home to get check up, and havent got a reply... typical, he'll be ****ed. He says i have munchasens (where you think ur sick for attention) i dont, but would you blame me if i did?? he doesnt give any attention!!! But i wish i was imagining this pain. I cried thru the big pain this morning... was about 2 mins long... geez, i forgot what labour pains were like, dont know if i could go thru them again!! haha im going to hop offline, as i have to go get him, but i'll call the hospital and let them know whats happening... if DH doesnt like it, then he can call me an ambulance from work and take the car and the kids home. then he can still go to daddy's house.