coping with pg and baby

[visitor1]

Dh and i are now TTC but not going out of our way. If it happens it happens. My DD is now 10 weeks old....Was thinking AF was due round now...but not appeared....so its possbile im already pg again. My DH and i want a large family so our gaps will be small. I just hope it doesnt impact on our kids. I used to think i wouldnt have enough love for them all... but now i know i just make my love bigger. I have a great hubby so we will manage...and so will you!! Goodluck!!!

Cherryrose- Did you have any negative comments from others about falling PG so soon after your first child?? I guess thats something playing on my mind.

[Cherryrose]

Dh and i are now TTC but not going out of our way. If it happens it happens. My DD is now 10 weeks old....Was thinking AF was due round now...but not appeared....so its possbile im already pg again. My DH and i want a large family so our gaps will be small. I just hope it doesnt impact on our kids. I used to think i wouldnt have enough love for them all... but now i know i just make my love bigger. I have a great hubby so we will manage...and so will you!! Goodluck!!!

Cherryrose- Did you have any negative comments from others about falling PG so soon after your first child?? I guess thats something playing on my mind.

Well everyone immediately presumed it was an accident and we had been 'careless'. I would tell them it was planned and they would look in horror, as if to say 'who would want to do something as silly as that?'. I used to get a lot of looks too IYKWIM.
At the end of the day people can say and think what they like, I really couldnt care less. This is my life and Im the one who has to live it. I wanted my eldest to have someone to grow up with and play with, I never had that as a child as my only sibling, my brother was 12 years older than me and married by the time I was 7.
I have never regretted it. It makes me laugh that for one month of the year those 2 girls are the same age! They were very close (although they fight now) and I loved them being small together. It was hard work but sometimes special things require a bit of effort.
Good luck in whatever you decide