A couple of questions for anyone who has been pregnant...

[Bumperstump Cummerbund]

Oh yeah, I'm awesome She reckons SPD will hit her fairly early, it generally hits her around 20 weeks but she says she weighs the most she ever has. Hers is uncomfortable but not unworkable, knowing her she'd say she'd rather be uncomfortable on holiday than uncomfortable at home! And they don't mind leaving the kids for a night, all the dads are really good and will probably get together at one of their own houses and have a sleepover for the kids.

Yeah, one night is probably better than 2. Or maybe the dads can join us for the second night....shall email the girls and see what they think.

Thanks for your help ladies!

[Arimeh]

Oh yeah, I'm awesome She reckons SPD will hit her fairly early, it generally hits her around 20 weeks but she says she weighs the most she ever has.

I'm the heaviest I've ever been and this is the best my pelvis has ever felt - so you can tell her that for some hope..

[Kazbah]

First pregnancy I was great until around 36 weeks! M/s was annoying until about 14 weeks then reflux kicked in and food became an issue.
This pregnancy I'm lighter, and was best around 12-18 weeks, in between m/s and SPD.

I'd say everyone deserves a little spoiling, you can just do it for her being a wonderful person without the "baby shower" tag. But I've never had a baby shower, so I'm prolly prejudiced by that.