Kylie, there could have been other reasons why your labour was so long - malposition of the baby for a start. If a woman is left alone to let her body do what it is supposed to do then even a baby with a large head can be birthed vaginally - that is why babies have skulls that mould to the vagina - mother nature knew what she was doing. Often Obs don't like to let a woman go past a certain stage of pushing either, which is ridiculous because if they could just wait, stop telling her to push and just let her be, then it will happen. There is a post that Hoobley made recently that said often women can go past the magical 10cms if they let their body take all the time it needs to stretch slowly to accomodate the baby and this makes a lot of sense.
Tamara, I really doubt that you have it - bubs not being engaged at 38wks is no indicator at all considering that a pg can be up to 42wks long. Out of my 4pgs I have only had one baby engaged before labour started and that was my second. As for public hospital birth and VBAC, you will be better off in a public hospital than a private one and better off again if you have a homebirth with an independant midwife. Private hospitals seems to be the natural enemy of VBAC from what I have read of other women's experiences.




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