Thanks for your advice. I'm trying to deal with it the best I can. Lots of tears but I think bubs knows cause everytime I get really upset I get a few reasuring kicks in the gut to remind me she's ok.

I just find it really hard when everyone keeps commenting that I'm not showing much yet and look really tired. I just want to scream at them, but instead I just have to explain things aren't going so well.

And then you get people, including my family, putting in their advice that wasn't asked for. One person even asked how much all the surgeries are going to cost us, seriously as if I care about costs right now or ever. Some people just dont think.