We have both always discussed only having 2 kids. And while i'm happy and comfortable with our decision part of me doesn't want to make it absolutly final.
Dh is wanting to have a vasectomy after this baby, but i'm not sure i want to make it this final. I know the pill isn't 100% reliable (DD was conceieved while on the pill) and although we used condoms after she was born, neither of us are that excited about using them. I'm happy to look into other forms of contraception eg - injections etc but don't know about thier effectiveness etc.

Was your DH determine to have it done? how did you feel about it? How did you approach this situation.