Did you get BFPs at different days for different pregnancies?
Arg so I should be patient- AF is due end of the week but since my early loss last cycle I am so impatient to shake the awfulness of last month and just bake a sibling for DD! With this pregnancy last month I got a bfp on the evening of 8dpo. I'm 8 or 9dpo today and have some of the same symptoms as last month but when I tested I got a clear bfn. With DD I didn't test until the day after AF was late so I can't compare but basically, being already a bit emotional from last month, I'm gutted that I've got a bfn this time.
Should I get another early bfp if I got one last time? Or can you realistically get early and later bfps with different pregnancies?
I wouldn't give up hope LL, maybe this time you've implanted late? I can understand your frustration, I think the cycle after a loss feels like it's lasting forever.
You certainly can! My first pregnancy I got a BFP at 12DPO I think it was, and I had tested and gotten BFN's before.
This pregnancy I got a super strong BFP at 8DPO.
I have my fingers crossed for you lovely, that this cycle is yours x
The first cycle after a loss is so tough. I remember just wanting to be pregnant again to feel ok. I didn't ovulate that first cycle though which the ob said is common. I fell pregnant second cycle. Are you sure you ovulated?
Preggoeggo no I'm not certain i ovulated actually as I usually have a stock standard cervical mucous pattern of dry creamy watery ewcm then dry then creamy before AF and other O symptoms but this time I had early patches of ewcm around Cd 8-9 then around the time I normally ovulate (cd16) I only had super watery cm. I don't temp as DD still wakes at night or early in the morn.
BubbaT I was thinking of you the other day! I hope it is a bfp for you
Thanks girls. I feel like a woman possessed this cycle. I just need to be pregnant to get over my loss... I'm not calling it a chemical because I was pregnant for seven days and it felt real enough. and I see DD relishing the company of other little people and I so desperately want to give her a dear little sibling.
I didn't like calling mine a chemical either. Doesn't matter how early, once you see that second line it's a baby to you. I hope you've got a sneaky pregnant eggy in there and it's just too early. If not though I hope you can conceive again quickly and it helps you heal.
mine have been:
early m/c - faint bfp at 11dpo not strong til 14dpo
DS1 - strong bfp at 8dpo
DS2 - strong bfp at 9dpo
this bub - faint bfp at 10dpo not strong til 14dpo
still early days hun. stay strong and be kind to yourself
LL I don't like calling it a chemical either, like Preggo eggo said once there is a second line to me its a baby.
You are too sweet to think of me, I have been in limbo on ttc so to be late was a really pleasant surprise. I am happy to hold your virtual hand while we wait for what ever will happen
LL - reading about your c/m reminded me, this month I had watery c/m cd 13,14,15, slight ewcm cd 16 (only noticed after checking internally) & watery c/m cd 17 - which according to fertility friend is when I ovulated. I also ovulated 3 days earlier than normal so maybe you did O but your body changed it's pattern? Don't forget, I only got faint bfp 14dpo using IC. But it was as clear as day 17dpo using clear blue.
I had 10dpo, but ended at 12 weeks.
Can't remember the next one, but started bleeding within 12 hours, so not really significant. Was early though.
Then BFN at 10, BFP at 12dpo, baby 39 weeks later.
Then BFP at 14 or 15 dpo.
Looks like I'm one of the few who don't have a normal cycle after an early loss- I think AF arrived this morning, three days early. I'm usually a perfect 28 day cycle with ovulation about cd16 so either I ovulated early, didn't ovulate at all or ovulated as per normal and had a stupidly short luteal phase.
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Did you get BFPs at different days for different pregnancies?
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