Mellie Im in a similar situation. I can eat, but it has to be specific things, and mostly these aren't suitable for the kids. (or they just don't like what Im eating). Tonight Im making them spag bolognese. I too have done alot of toasted s'wiches, and I dont' think that is bad. I have been thinking I'll get back to giving them a much healthier dinner when I can stomach the thought of it!!
We too have had a few BBQ chooks, and also some schnitzels. My girls are quite fussy though, so it's been hard. There's been a few nights of pasta with cheese and a piece of brocolli!!!
Im sure the Dr's appt will give you some good advice xox