Hi all,

Have searched the forums and can't find much info on my situation - most of the threads I found are about it being safe to DTD in pregnancy except when advised not too which is info I know...

My problem (or concern rather) is that I think DP is not attracted to me anymore... I have been thinking this for the past week and feel I can't turn to anyone for advice and it is taking a massive amount of courage for me to post this

Many people have commented and I have always felt the pregnant form is a wonder and quite beautiful... I am currently 24 weeks pregnant and have what I feel is a gorgeous bump... but DP and I haven't DTD in quite some time (feels like it is 6 or so weeks ago... maybe it is more but I vageuly remember something around DPs birthday which is when I was 18 weeks)

I have tried many things that used to work, different times of day, suggestive text messages and I get NO interest - seriously NONE. I can't help but feel rejected.

I asked him a couple of times (not each day) if there was a problem and he reassures me that there isn't, he was just tired and gave me a big hug and held me to sleep... but I see through that - seriously tired for weeks on end... no random little jokes (ie trying to feel me up when I am washing up - weird I know but it is our thing! or him trying to sneak into the shower with me, making sure I have my seatbelt on correctly - so he can feel a boob) - as annoying as those jokes got at times I miss them!

I know he loves me dearly but I am an emotional pg woman who wants a bit of action... I can't help but feel he is either turned off by my changing body or worried about DTD now bubs is moving... we have talked about both things just in our general conversations and he says he has no problem with either and thinks it would be funny if bubs kicked a lot during DTD...

So... I suppose I should stop rambling... I am just over feeling rejected by my love and trying all I can think of including not pushing the item so he doesn't feel pressured but as I said, I want some action and ok emotions building up - have to go - can't cry at work