im actually going to suggest to her to seek a second opinion from another (hopefully more sympathetic doctor) from the same hospital. The first doctor sounded like such an arragont person. He actually rolled his eyes when she spoke of the stress she was under.Considering her first born almost died and they had to wait years to find out if he had any lasting damage from being deprived of oxygen it makes me sick to hear of his cavalier attitude. I wonder why he became an obstetrician in the first place.