I'm so so sorry about your Grandad

As hard as it's going to be, you're going to have to not put too much pressure on yourself to birth i.e. get more distressed if you don't go into labour, to allow yourself to get to the funeral if it is planned sooner than later. I can tell how very much you want to be there, but your Grandad will know you are there in your heart if the dates don't happen to work to allow it Your Grandad would want you to put yourself and bub first and foremost

Thinking of you and your family, and lots of calming gentle hugs to you