Feeling deflated ...

[peanutter]

I've not been in your shoes, and don't want to presume to know what you're going through ...

but I will because there will be others who can empathise

I hope things improve xoxo

[chepie]

Oh I can completely understand!! With DS it was wonderful and exciting (scary at the start), DD we had too many stress's in our life and DH and I hardly talked!! He only got interested towards the end and we shared an amazing water birth....... Just found out that we are pregnant with number 3 and we are both stoked and plan to communicate more with each other and enjoy it as this will be our last buba....
Could you try talking DH about how you are feeling? Could maybe -if possible you and DH go away for the weekend and rekindle the excitement and magic of growing a buba??

Don't be hard on yourself beautiful it will happen xox

[NaeNae]

Thanks ladies

Chepie - we would love a weekend away but there is no way we can afford it let alone leave DD with anyone as she still BFs to sleep. Its a great idea though. I talked to Dh the other day because I was getting upset that he doesn't seemt he least bit interested he just brushed it off and said that he is cautiously optimistic about it all. I asked him if he was sad that its our last pregnancy and he isn't ........ I am but he cannot understand why no matter how hard I try to explain it.

I am still feeling meh about it cannot wait until it gets bigger and i can really feel it wriggling. I guess his lack of excitement is kind of rubbing off onto me too LOL.

My bestie is on holidays next week and I am really looking ofrward to catching up with her they are so over the moon they are pregnant I am hoping some of their excitment will rub off a little

Thanks everyone luvs you all x x x x

[*The_Mrs.*]

Oh NaeNae....I know exactly how you feel!

In fact I sort of have this guilty feeling that I am not as over-the-moon excited like I was with DD...I just feel sort of like I am not sure if this was a good idea and just as you put it..deflated

Maybe we should start a thread.. "Pregnant and Blah "

[NaeNae]

Maybe we should start a thread.. "Pregnant and Blah "

I love this comment!!

[MummyOfTerrors]

i was actually deflated in my 3rd for a different reason
1st all new and exciting
2nd little girl something different (plus so busy)
i had 2 perfect pregnancys felt totally awesome
figured 3rd time round would be the same

but i had a hard time and ended up as higher risk and having a tramatic birth
my 3rd is my last so i was upset it didnt go my way (i wanted to enjoy every min like i did with my first 2)
but holding my bubs made it worth it (helps also his a perfect bubba)

wishing you all the best for the rest of your pregnancy xoxox