As a mum of three and the 3rd being half planned and half not, I was in a very similar situation. As soon as you see your little prince or princess on that monitor at a scan your heart will melt and you will love all 3 of your children with a great passion. My 2 oldest don't seem to be missing out at all and most of the time quite happily play with each other while I attend to Ashtons needs. They also love to get things for Ashton if I need them

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