Everyone is different and so are the babies.

It can also depend on what you are doing. The busier and more active you are the less likely you are to notice early on. And ealry movements are necessarily a kick.

With this pregnancy I had what I thought was a kick first, then nothing else until the next night. I was in bed almost asleep with my hand on my tummy. I realised my belly was moving slightly back and forth under my hand. Once I realised though there was no way I could get it to happen again.

Babies are a law onto themselves. They will move when and where they want. Nothing can change that.

If you are worried talk to your doctor.