We found out with DS, and this time round too. My reasoning is that I'm such an impatient person I just couldn't wait, and DH, well I don't know what his initial reasoning was but I know that he loved knowing as he felt it helped him bond. We didn't tell anyone with DS, we told everyone we didn't know the sex. This time we've told a few people but for the majority it will still be a surprise at the end. Although I have no comparison, I certainly didn't feel like I was missing out at the birth because I already knew DS was a boy, we were really excited to finally meet our little boy who felt like a long friend.

Just because YOU find out, doesn't mean you have to tell everyone!

Hope you come to a decision you're happy with