Didnt find out with sons 1 and 3 but did with 2 and 4. I did have feelings of disappointment in finding out we were expecting our fourth son but soon got over them. I will be finding out with this baby as well so I can prepare myself again.

The comments I recieved about number 4 been another boy were not always supportive. The "ooooohhhhh nevermind" "will you try again?" "urrgghhhh four boys!!" were enough to make sure we keep the gender to ourselves this time.
I think I had a harder time coming to terms with it because I almost felt like I had done something wrong rather than the fact I was bringing a beautiful gorgeous little boy into the world who just happened to have three older brothers.