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  1. #1
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    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
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    I would and will find out. I don't know why, but I'm terrified of having a boy. I want 3 children, but I'm so scared the next one is going to be a boy, hence making my final pregnancy stressful waiting to know the sex. I don't know how I'd deal with only having one girl So I'd find out, so I'd have time to adjust.

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    Oct 2009
    Lalor, VIC
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    I've always been 100% don't find out. I know some people have their reasons (for example, I completely understand why Skybie wants to find out), but it just doesn't make sense to me.

    With Ianto, had we found out, I would've been a disappointed. I always wanted a girl first. When he was born and I was told he was a boy, my mind just went "well of course he is!" even though I'd spent my pregnancy calling him "her".

    With Amelia, I was more concerned about whether I was right about her being a girl than I was about her actually being one