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thread: Has anyone actually beaten the odds?

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  1. #1
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    Oct 2012
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    Has anyone actually beaten the odds?

    So, apparently the miscarriage rate is 1 in every 3 pregnancies (insane!) and could actually be higher given some women don't know they're pregnant.

    I'm currently pregnant for the 6th time and have had 2 miscarriages, on par with the average - all going well this time.

    Has anyone actually been lucky enough to have had 3 kids without a loss?

  2. #2
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    I've had 4 babies & not had a loss. My MIL had 6, no losses.
    I also have a friend who's had 6 with no losses.

    I can't imagine how hard that is to go through.

  3. #3
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    Oct 2012
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    oh wow! you are all very lucky

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    Mar 2004
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    2 boys. No losses.

  5. #5
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    I had two losses before both my girls. I am pregnant with my 5th but as long as things keep going great it will be 3 for me. Not sure if it is the same as what your after but that is how it is for me.

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    oh wow! you are all very lucky

    My MIL did go on to lose 2 babies post birth though.

  7. #7
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    Oct 2007
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    My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. Since then I have had three healthy babies.

    My Ob told me that the "1 in 3" statistic is a theoretical number. It includes pregnancies that miscarry when the mother doesn't even realise she was even pregnant. For example, if a mother was very early pregnant and miscarried at the same time she was due to have her period she would probably never know she had ever been pregnant. I think he said that of known pregnancies the miscarriage rate was about 1 in 5. So if you already know you are pregnant, your chance of miscarriage has already lowered

  8. #8
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    Jun 2007
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    I'm also very, very fortunate to have had three pregnancies and no losses.
    xx

  9. #9
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    Mar 2006
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    I am extremely blessed and have had 3 pregnancies resulting in my 3 beautiful kids

    I am so thankful not having any losses

  10. #10
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    Dec 2008
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    I have never had a miscarriage.

  11. #11
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    Dec 2005
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    I was under the impression, according to my fertility specialist, that the 'normal' miscarriage rate is 1 in 6. Ive had 7 losses, 3 live births and currently pregnant (11 pregnancies all up). After my 5th miscarriage my specialist said my personal rate was 1 in 2. Probably near impossible after the last 2 miscarriages but here I am!

  12. #12
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    May 2010
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    3 babies followed by a miscarriage for me

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    Sep 2011
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    3 babies, no known losses. I'm not sure if I was pregnant a month before our last baby/pregnancy as I had the symptoms for a few days and then nothing (?) Never showed up on a home test, but then again our third pregnancy took ages to show positive.

    I did have bleeding with all 3 around 6-8 weeks and thought I'd lost each of them. Did the ultrasounds etc. Never worked out why that was.

  14. #14
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    Jan 2010
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    I'm right with 'average' at the moment. I had one loss, then DD and am now over half way with this one.

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    2 bubs and 2 losses before each preg, so I'm out...

  16. #16
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    Feb 2006
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    I had 2 losses, then three healthy pregnancies/babies.

  17. #17
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    Jun 2008
    Queensland
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    My second pregnancy ended in miscarriage. And i've had 2 suspected chemicals. My sister had 5 babies before having her first m/c. my mum had 9 pregnancies with 2 ending in m/c.

  18. #18
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    Oct 2012
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    I honestly didn't realise the rate was so high... doesn't make me feel any better about the pain they've caused.. but being statistically 'normal' makes me not feel so alone!

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