There is also the option of adopting the baby out if you don't want to keep it and really dont want to terminate. It would also give DP another 8 months to change his decision.
This is what I was going to say. I think everyone has goven you some wonderful advice, and issues with your BF aside, if *you* dont think you are ready or it would be in your unborns childs best interests, you dont have to have an abortion if you dont want to, its not your only option.