my husband works long hours and often 6 days a week, so unfortunately if I don't do the vaccuming and that sort of thing it often doesn't get done and I hate the house being dirty! I normally pay for it at the end of the day if I have had a cleaning frenzy though and have to have a meeting with my BF - my heat pack! DH is fantastic though, he really does do so much around the house, I don't know how I would survive without him!

Cass is totally right though, just do what you can when you can, don't put too much pressure on yourself to be a superwoman!