I've just reached 12 weeks this week and I completely understand where you are coming from. After so long trying to hide it, it seems so strange to tell people and also really hard to bring up in the conversation.

We'd already told most of our parents and closest friends, so are now waiting till Christmas lunch to announce it to the rest of the family (make a nice addition to the toast I think). But so far I have only told three or four people I work with, and each of them have told me it's been the worst kept secret ever. I figured that a few people were on to my not drinking, but apparently my boobs and my expanding hips (which I hadn't even noticed) gave it way weeks ago