I was scared and we certainly didn't DTD as much in the first trimester as we had pre pg, I had a few bleeds (2 x old blood and 1 x new blood) and that made us even more apprehensive... the bleeds didn't happen after DTD.

But in hindsight we probably DTD more in the first trimester than we did the second trimester

I went through a time when I craved DTD but DP was scared but wouldn't say it upfront... and then there was a time when DP was really up for it and I was busy being ill