I didn't find out with either. That moment when you see your newborn child enter the world and you have a look and discover if its a boy or a girl - well that kind of magic is rare in this life. I loved having two surprises - didn't find it difficult at all. In fact towards the end of my second pregnancy I would randomly remember that I didn't know what I was having and it would make me smile.

I know some people can't wait, but for us with two IVF bubbas, having something that was a true surprise, that wasn't scheduled or known ahead of time, was priceless.