I went public, and had my own room with a double bed.
However, next time i'm staying home.
I went public, and had my own room with a double bed.
However, next time i'm staying home.
I never had an Ob (public for all) & truthfully can't see why you need one unless it's more for convenience... a few posters have mentioned elective CS, or knowing who they will have for the delivery.. that kind of thing, I get, but apart from that, even if there are complications (as there were with my third labour) you just see the Ob who's on at the time. With my second & fourth labours I never saw a doctor of any sort, just a midwife.
JMO and of course I speak from the POV of never having had one
but I don't know what pre-natal care they would give that would be any different?
I viewed having an OB as a bit of insurance. Whilst I was aiming for a low risk, no complications pregnancy in life there are never any guarantees. IF there turned out to be a problem I wanted an OB that knew me and my case history rather than whoever was on duty that night. The attraction of a private room and staying in hospital a bit longer if I needed were also strong given it was my first baby and I had no idea what to expect.
As it turned out, I did have complications at the end of my pregnancy (pre-eclampsia) and I did need an OB. Things were quite hairy for a while yet because my OB knew me and my birth plan I still got the vaginal birth I wanted. Therefore in hindsight I'm glad I went with an OB and therefore in the private hospital system despite the cost.
I'd second the recommendation of the book "Better Birth". I had made a conscious effort to find an OB that was more in tune with the 'midwifery view' of birth as opposed to the 'obstetric view' and that was the difference for me having a good OB experience.
I'll definitely be going back to my OB for future babies.
my BF had an elective c/s for her second and third bubs and had them both public with and OB
its completely uo to you as to what YOU want! if you want an OB then have one, if youd prefer midwife care then definalty go public and dont worry about sharing a room, you never know, you may end up making new friends like i did!
sharing a room i found wonderful, i was never bored, had others to talk too when the partners had gone home etc..
I think it's definitely up to you & it's a very personal decision.
I wanted to go through the public system despite having PHI. My local hospital offers Midwifery Group Practice which is seeing the same midwife for all your appointments, having that midwife deliver your baby & gives you up to 4 weeks of home visits. My midwife was also an LC so was very helpful & it wasn't unusual for her to spend 90 minutes at our house. I also had her mobile number & could contact her anytime during the pregnancy & beyond.
Although, due to circumstances beyond her control she actually missed DS' birth but we did have her backup midwife whom we had met previously. But an OB could also miss your birth so no difference there.
I will go through the same program with future babies, hopefully get the same widwife again.
I have gone private with each of my pregnancies, and haven't needed an OB. Living in a country area, my only real option was a GP obstetrician, and to elect to be a private patient in our local public hospital. I've had my own room with the first two, and am expecting the same again this time (not guaranteed, but more than likely). My GP has delivered both my babies so far - emergency c-section first time, and elective c-section for the second. This one will be another elective, and he will perform the procedure again. I LOVE having this continuity and familiarity. My GP knows me and my family really well, as we see him as our family GP too. There are also a couple of midwives at the hospital that I will be requesting for my delivery, because they made me feel calm and cared for the last two times. I guess that's the beauty of small rural communities. Having said that however, if there were any major complications expected, I wouldn't muck around - I'd be travelling the 3 hours to Brisbane for OB care in a private hospital.
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