Wow, thanks for all the honest replies.

Lots of angel babies out there. to all the Mama's..

Not sure if you are counting terminations in this straw poll but 'loss' doesn't always mean miscarriage and the effects can be just as gut wrenching. The sad thing is that, in our society, even though abortion is decriminalized, most women would not admit to having had a termination lest they be judged. It's a loss that no one wants to know about.
I am asking the women of BB how many pregnancies VS live births they have had or if they were fortunate enough to have never experienced a loss. It's not up to me to decide what a loss is. I just threw the 1 in 4 statistic in there because I found it interesting.. TBH I don't really know what losses that statistic includes either.

ETA: From what I can find from a quick google it's for miscarriage. So that only covers 1 aspect of loss.