It is a good topic but not the topic of this thread of course....

I have four healthy children that I am incredibly grateful for but I am constantly anxious (what if they get cancer, what if they get kidnapped, what if they end up a bad person, etc). I think that it's part of being a parent. It's part of love. There's never a guarantee (bad things can happen at any age)... as soon as you have conceived your child you need to live with that possibility of loss - it's like that saying about how the decision to have a child is momentous because you'll be living forevermore with your heart outside your body.