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  1. #1
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    Dec 2011
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    This is my 4th.

    DD born 2006
    M/c may 2011
    M/c aug 2011

    Due with this one end of July 2012

  2. #2
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    Apr 2009
    Melbourne
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    6 pregnancies, 1 DS earthside, 1 DD grew her wings when she was born

    #1: DS
    #2, #3, #4: early m/c
    #5: twins- ruptured ectopic at 6.5w, missed m/c blighted ovum 11w
    #6: DD born sleeping (heart condition) 35w

    I don't consider Poppy as a pregnancy loss. She was my daughter and she died. I lost my child. I mourned my m/c's differently.

    I agree with those who wrote about strength. It's a funny word and when people use it to describe you, it feels so odd. Because you choose to be strong or brave or cowardly. I don't choose to grieve in my way. I just do. I'm not more or less brave than any other mother who has walked away from a hospital with empty arms and a broken heart. We are as we are. Grieving mothers.
    Last edited by becnxavi; January 18th, 2012 at 10:47 AM.

  3. #3
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    Oct 2011
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    3 pregnancies...

    #1 MC at 11 weeks
    #2 DD
    #3 Ectopic pregnancy at 5 weeks

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    Jan 2012
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    I don't know if mine would count as a loss, but it feels like one for me.

    1 Pregnancy - 7wks Forced termination by my then DF

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    Nov 2010
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    I don't know if mine would count as a loss, but it feels like one for me.

    1 Pregnancy - 7wks Forced termination by my then DF
    It definitely counts hun. I had a termination at 8 weeks and even though it was ultimately my decision to go through with it, there was heavy preassure from my then DP and sometimes I quietly wonder what might have been.

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    It definitely counts hun. I had a termination at 8 weeks and even though it was ultimately my decision to go through with it, there was heavy preassure from my then DP and sometimes I quietly wonder what might have been.
    It's not an easy thing to do regardless I always wonder what my angel would of been and how he/she would of looked.

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    May 2011
    Somewhere in the Country
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    6 pregnancies 1 living bub

    #1 #2 #3 early M/c
    #4 My darling Tyler born alive died 2 hours 8 minutes later
    #5 early m/c
    #6 DD