Thanks Ruffalina. My appts now last only about 5 mins lol - we check bubs, my blood pressure and there's usually not much else to discuss. Occasionally I have questions but none of them have been urgent or pressing issues.

I am rarely ever sick generally though and I have an aversion to the medical system/hospitals etc based in teenage experiences so I think this is where my reluctance is coming from. Obviously I want to do everything 'right' though so I will probably attend as often as he wants me to. Thanks for the reassurance that regular contact doesn't mean a higher chance of heaps of intervention too.