I actually think this is an emotive issue in some ways because some women who have experienced the heartache of stillbirth, recurrent miscarriage or long term infertility find it really hard to reconcile the idea of being finally blessed with a sticky bub and doing anything that could even remotely jeopardise the baby's health.
Oh absoloutly, that makes sense. I admit I too would be very strict if I had been through big hurdles to get my baby. That being said, I don't love my baby any less! I just am ignorant in experience (thankfully).

I have eaten subway, med rare steaks, runny eggs, pate, raw bacon... It's not that i run out and start eating pounds of unwashed salad or deli meats that have been sitting in the fridge for a week, but if I also don't freak out and start stressing if i eat a few of the 'banned' items if i know they are fresh, because the risks are really quite low IMHO.
This. I'm not running out smashing ban foods, I'm just not getting panicked if I eat it. I'm trying to cook my steaks well done, but if they come out medium, no biggy for me.

I'd never judge anyone who chooses to be "strict" on the food rules. If that's your choice then that's great! And I honestly mean that... if your choice is to abide by the often given rules I think you are doing really well. It's just my choice not to, and that is OK as well.

Desmond Tutu (I really don't like him in general, but this quote is ok) said... I don't mind if people look down on me, so long as they don't ask me to look up to them.

So true! I don't feel like anyone here has looked down on me, but I've given up caring and frankly wouldn't be bothered if anyone did. It's pure freedom .

I say we all do what we think is best and respect the decisions of others and all is well in the world.

This post sounds a bit more snarky than it should but I'm sick of editing it. I promise, I honestly do mean that I respect whatever choice you've made for you and your bub.
I didn't think you sounded snarky Maruschke.