Oh, one other thing I thought of is if you have a particular brand of maternity and nursing pad that you like, be very specific about it when you write out a shopping list (I'm assuming that you haven't even brought that stuff yet) for him because otherwise he'll get to coles and not have a clue which one, so he'll just grab whatever one he thinks is the right one, and will save you a lot of stress when he brings back the right ones