DH wants 2 or 3. i want 4 or more..so we shall see if i get my way. he comes from a family of 7.. but theres some of the gaps he wouldnt go for:
1 = 33
2 = 30
3 = 28
4(DH) = 25
5 = 20
6 = 18
7 = 16

he is liking the 3 years differences we are gunna have..altho he wanted 2 years but i found out i had PCOS so took a lil longer to conceive. id like to keep the 2-3 year gap going..dont want any bigger then that..

I am from a family of 7 with 2-3 year gaps. 2010 ages

1 - 37
2 - 35
3 - 33
Me - 31
5 - 28
6 - 25
7 - 23

The biggest drama was there was 5 girls, 2 boys. So the girls were all fairly close, but the 2 boys were 12 years apart.

Just 5 years difference is proving to be too far with my girls... Definitely a good idea to avoid too much a gap IMO.